Rainy Days

Rain Rain go away...

So here it is raining, while my parents have 13 inches of snow! I had to put a rain coat on Maddie for school! In NOVEMBER! AAK! I don't live in NJ anymore! Where is my snow?

And to add insult to injury, I read a stupid news article about how busy professional women choose cesareans! I wanted to gag, the actual reflex was so strong, I could not finish the article, especially the part where mr OB god states "c/s are perfectly safe, as long as you do not want more than two children" WHAT THE FREAKING FOO? Now we let OB's decide our family size? What kind of crap is that? How can you say it is safe, and wonderful and you will be just peachy after major surgery, and then say "well, actually, you are permanently damaged, and will be considered a ticking time bomb, and we will suggest surgical sterilization at the time of your repeat cesarean to prevent you from becoming a danger to yourself, your family, and my medical practice" WTFIGOH!

Why? Why do women put themselves in the hands of these people? Why are we so short sighted that we do not look past today? Sure maybe today is not a big deal, but what about tomorrow? Do you really want to allow some OB to decide how many children you can have? What happens if you want more later, but did not when you penciled your cesarean into your datebook?

I am just sick of the double message, "Cesareans are Safe, and you are considered Healthy afterwards" and then the next "VBAC's are dangerous, multiple cesareans are dangerous, after all you have a scarred uterus".

Sigh, makes me want to go put a heating pad on my Voldermort, put my feet up and say "I am getting off this train! Oh, and who said being committed to an insane asylum is that bad?"